Showing posts with label Adult children of Alcoholic Parent. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Adult children of Alcoholic Parent. Show all posts

Sunday, November 9, 2008

My Father, Me, and a transistor radio


Some great memories for me as a kid was listening to LSU football games on Saturday night. Now, this was back when there was no cable TV, so there was only 3 stations on the TV, and LSU wasn't on TV all that often. However, we had this transistor radio. Through the miracle of the internet, I was able to find an image of the exact radio we had! Amazing.

Each Saturday night we'd listen to LSU football games in our dining room. On these days, my dad's mood was usually good. It was great to be able to sit and listen to the games with him, this little transistor radio sending the signals from all over the southern United States. I have such vivid memories of that radio. Small with a big sound, the crowd noise arriving to our home across the Atchafalaya River Basin. I miracle I often thought. I would imagine being there with the crowd, getting sucked into that little radio into Tiger Stadium on a Saturday night. Over time, that radio had no back and the battery was held in by electrical tape. Hearing the lightning crackle over the airwaves during thunderstorms in south Louisiana echoes through my memory even now!

Occasionally, LSU would be on TV. Usually this game was against Bear Bryant's Alabama Crimson Tide. Back then, that usually spelled a loss! Ugh.

I don't remember all the names of players of the early 70s, but the oldest player I recall was Bert Jones!

It is cool to think that a simple transistor radio would be responsible for the most warming memories of times with my father. A common bond was formed as we sat at that table listening to the game, him telling me of his time at LSU in the early 40s, living in the stadium dorms and cleaning the stadium on Sunday mornings for extra money. No bad memories surface when I think of that radio. As I think of those times now, I really was in that radio. It shielded me from any chaos. During those few Saturday nights in football season, I knew I was getting the "good" dad. There was no guessing the mood, he wasn't away at the bars. He was safe and sound with me and our transistor radio.

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Kites and Escape

As a kid I loved flying kites. A lot of my memories are flying bat kites (pictured) with friends and relatives. My memories are of peaceful times flying kites in the fields behind the house amongst the young sugar cane plants. Or with my cousin Tommy at his house, our kites on multiple reels of string, so far they are look like a pinhead. Or times battling kites with friends along the Bayou Teche.
As I reflect, I wonder if back then I was consciously escaping my reality? Was I thinking that I wanted to get out the house? Or was I just out to have a little fun?
Regardless of my motives, the end result is that I enjoy digging up the memories of flying kites! Even today, it brings such peace to my mind. They are such vivid memories. I can clearly hear the noises of the kite along with the rustling of the cane leaves in the March Louisiana winds. It is simply great memories of childhood. I am glad my brain was able to keep such crisp and vivid pictures of these moments of my youth for me to enjoy today.
The kite pictured is a Gayla baby bat kite. Simple design. We called it a bat kite and I only just recently found its "official" name. The kite was plastic and by far the most common kite to find flying the skies of St. Martinville. I love the big eyes! The kite is still available today.
C'est finis.
Ron

Friday, October 24, 2008

This Old House


This is the house I lived in from the time I was 5 until my fathers death in 1982. The picture above is of an original painting that I own. It was done by my childhood friend's mom, Mrs Louise Guidry, who is a very well known south Louisiana artist. It is an excellent painting of the house I lived in. The house sits on the side of the highway on a working sugar cane (known as the Burton Plantation) farm on the outskirts of the town of St. Martinville, Louisiana. St. Martinville is an old Acadiana town that is rich in history. It was a wonderful town to grow up in. Physically, the house in my time was in bad shape. NO air conditioner, no central heating, old tin roof, rats and mice in the attic. Roaches galore. In winter, the wind would could come up through the cracks in the wooden floor. We had a wooden stove and heater for heat in the winter time, along with regular butane heaters in various rooms. In the summer, all we had was fans. Looking back, it was like living in the early 1900s as far as amenities were concerned. The house was surrounded by two large, old live oak trees, quite common in that part of Louisiana. There were also quite a few pecan trees, which provided me a little income during pecan season. All these trees also made for lots leaf raking! We had about an acre of land as our yard, divided up into two parts by a barb wire fence. Originally there were quite a few buildings on the property. In the end, we had two wooden sheds and one small barn. We raised chickens in the early years, and had a large garden behind the house for many years.
Despite the chaos, the house evokes some strong and cherished memories for me. I miss that time.
There is much more to write about this house. For now, I wanted to lay out the physical aspects of the house which is an important factor in my youth.
C'est finis.
Ron